生气
Okays. 2nd consecutive entry of the day because I’m looking for an avenue to vent my frustration. It’s a kinda stuffed congested fedup feeling, so pissed yet can’t unleash.
It’s not nice to scream, raise your voice at anybody, especially your loved ones. Why can’t people talk amiably? Life is so short, cherish everyone around you. These are people whom you love and care for right? There’s seriously no point yelling your lungs out when you can choose to talk nicely. It all boils down to a matter of choice. I myself, gotta admit that I do have this tone of exasperation when I speak to my parents and I’m trying my best to change for the better. It’s really tough to change when u start taking things around you for granted, because you assume it will always be there. I’m putting in a lot of effort to speak nicely to everybody even when I’m annoyed or pissed, I hope my attempt is enough to influence those around me. This takes time, but I’m sure the end result will be a fruitful one.
Don’t speak to him as though you don’t treasure him, because deep down in your heart, you know you love him. You will never know how hurt one feels when a loved one is harsh and unforgiving. It’s a scar that takes forever to heal. And, once again, it’s a matter of choice, so choose wisely.
not been bloggi…
not been blogging for a long time, kinda bogged down with my new job, a completely new environment with really awesome folks, good colleagues and caring bosses, there’s nothing much i can ask for at the moment. Really blessed to be able to afford my first car at the age of 23, and now i’m aiming for a house. There’s this upcoming project near fatty’s house which we’ve been contemplating about, i really like the location cuz its not at ulu punggol, yet at the same time I’m concerned at what my address would be BECAUSE HDB have to state the area under Geylang when the location is nowhere near there, it’s erhem..not very nice to tell people I reside in…..Geylang ( when the darn place is at paya lebar road).
I feel so blessed that god’s directions are manifesting in my life, he truly knows what I want and need at each point of my life. Its time to step out of my comfort zone, gather my courage and prove it to YOU that I’m far more than able to. I’m sure I can do this, cuz i’m not that weak after all. 
resolutions 2012
Every beginning of the year, I enjoy setting goals and targets I would like to accomplish by the end of each year. For 2012, other than my family and loved ones, career comes into the picture. Being pretty much a target driven person, goal setting helps me to set my directions and milestones I would like to achieve.
For everything I strive to achieve, I place it in and with the lord. Career success and advancements, improve and strengten ties with my family and loved ones,a blessed relationship between AC and me, being less risk-adverse in certain aspects and of course, to become a better person. Better may seem ambiguous at this point, but its an area I’ve been working on for the past years and results were pretty evident, praise the lord for people who are able to see and understand the real me, my true intentions in whatever I do and not being blinded by their own opinions and perspective. 2012 is a year of unceasing fruitfulness, I want to learn to lead a worry-free life and cast all my worries and troubles to god for I know he will better my every situation and bless miracles in my life. Amen 
A year of unceasing fruitfulness
Happy new year folks! Its the start of another blessed and awesome year for me and I hope the same goes for you too. 2011 had been an eventful year, most importantly, it marks the end of my life as a student and embarking on a working journey. The last year had also taught me to pursue my desires in life and to cherish those who truly appreciate and love me, my parents, family, friends and loved ones 
I also began my career in SGH upon graduation as an executive, i feel so blessed getting to know the most awesome-est boss and colleagues in my first job. Working with everybody in the office was a breeze, from the directors, managers, asst managers, senior execs and the clerks. Thank you all for being a part of my SGH experience.
2011 was also a year of god’s manifestation in my life. He knew my wants and goals in life and had gone ahead of my plans for me. I had 3 job offers from 3 fantastic companies before I left SGH, and god made the last job offer the best amongst them all. I cant describe in words how everything was so nicely planned and so timely, but god truly supplies abundantly. So, in 2 days time, I shall be embarking on my new job in a blessed organization and i know god’s unceasing fruitfulness shall be manifested monthly, daily, minute-ly in my life.
Heading to the market with mummykins, shall be back to blog about my resolutions for the new year. Tata folks!
its a deep cut,…
its a deep cut, so deep that i dunno if its beyond redemption and it hurts so freaking bad.
God, see me through this, heal my heartache, let my emotional wounds recover. I really dont want to end this, at least not for now.
DECEMBER
2011 is coming to an end, have all of us achieved our initial aims for the year? One thing’s for sure, i’ve completed 16 years of education, primary, secondary, college, uni and i can bid a huge goodbye to education, at least for now. Working life’s officially commenced about 3 months back, and i’ve learnt a lot more about myself, my goals in life, aims for myself, so on and so forth. So looking forward to 2012 and anticipating what god has in store for me the next coming year!
on a side note, we celebrated daddy’s 49th at melt the world cafe at mandarin oriental few weeks back. Top notch service accompanied by great food and of course, my awesome-est family.
Celebrating mum’s 48 next week, another buffet coming up. Time for some exercise! Whee!
And also, gotta brainstorm for some ideas to celebrate our 4th anniversary (omg its been 4 years!!!) this coming Jan! ideas anyone?? :p
The 5 LOVE languages
I have never came across this until i read an article recently, its amazing that there are 5 different love languages and all along, i’ve always thought LOVE is a language by itself. In any case, based on what i’ve read, the 5 love languages are:
Different
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love
language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the
words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love
sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not
easily forgotten.
QUALITY TIME
In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like
full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is
critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down,
and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel
truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure
to listen can be especially hurtful.
RECEIVING GIFTS
Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts
thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you
speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are
known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was
sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a
hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of
everyday gestures.
ACTS OF SERVICE
Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely!
Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an
“Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most
want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments,
and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their
feelings don’t matter.
PHYSICAL TOUCH
This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary
language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats
on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm,
shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern,
care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while
neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
Every individual speaks a diff love language, and it’s impt to realise which language your partner speaks. Although AC and i do communicate about certain issues, we still do bicker and quarrel cuz of misunderstandings. I guess its cuz both of us have a different love language and we dont know the anatomy of each other’s thinking. I did a test to find out my love language and mine happens to be “Words of affirmation”, which totally is in sync with my character. I’m so gonna get AC to do this test so we can understand each other even better!
For those who are interested, u can take the test at: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/
take it while u are relaxed and dont rush through it! Have fun!
My mind’s a whirlpool
The same issue had to happen again. I’m blogging in the midst of work on my wondrous iphone cuz I had too much on my mind and I need to find an avenue to let it go, keeping it inside me will just make me go berserk.
Sometimes, I wonder if time is the factor that pales everything. Being comfortable with everything and anything, be it with a person, with work, with your environment might make one complacent and starts to take things for granted. Logically, we should never ever take things for granted because things change, that explains why people might choose to walk away from it when they can’t adapt to the change. It starts dawning on me that I should not be taking you for granted, should not expect anything in return (but it’s tough) and learn to see things the way u do. Unfortunately, we’re all diff, but thats what makes all of us unique. I want to learn to accept and embrace our differences and move on from there, to a better and blessed future, alright? Promise me u’ll do the same and we’ll only get stronger yea?
